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[life stories] I’M A 30 Y.O WOMAN AND AM UNEMPLOYED

 

I’m not sure what to do with my life and it seems pretty hopeless too
I even have depression and tinnitus..
I did university for 4 years + Waiting for environmental engineering major certificate
I held unto my confidence and was preparing for the civil service examination for 3 years but my CV got rejected 3 years in a row so I really don’t know what to do anymore. I don’t even want to go out of my room and I feel guilty towards my parentsㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ
Right now, I’m just shutting myself up in my room, turned 30 and I can’t even apply anywhereㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ Sigh
Everyone seems happy except for me but
I seriously don’t want to live, seriously

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1. [+223, -6]

Does 30 years old even seem that old for you that you’re too late to start anything? Does it feel like all your friends are employed and found a place in the workplace? As someone way older than you, I also gave up on many things thinking that I was too old and thought that I had to be young to start anything. But without knowing, I was wasting even more time like that. OP-ah, I wonder how defeated you feel after getting rejected for 3 years in a row.. Even so, I want you to try one more time. Also, 30 y.o isn’t old at all so please find courage
2. [+175, -8]
If you need to pay for living expenses, try to find a part-time job at a distribution center. It’s good to empty your mind when your head is hurting. You’re using your body so it helps with your health too. If you try working there for 2-3 months, you will clear your mind a lot. Don’t give up. You don’t know what’s in the future and that’s why you feel like this. It will be ok
3. [+163, -2]
This is the best age to start something over. Find strength. If you want it, it will become true
4. [+119, 0]
The people in our country nitpick way too much about age and it’s severe how we think that everything is over by 30ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ just look at overseas, being 30 is still being a baby. They will never think that being 30 is old or anything
5. [+97, 0]
Our older cousin was in rehabilitation after getting into an accident because of DUI and she wasn’t able to work at all until she turned 31. Her legs still hurt but her upper body is fine so she worked hard towards a job that would make use of her upper body so she started learning bakery. She started a shop, hit daebak and is the one who earns the most among her university peers now. This unnie who was healthier than anyone else got into an accident and who knew that she would’ve been bedridden for so many years? Who would’ve known that she’d study confectionery and bakery and open a shop? Who would’ve know that her shop would hit daebak? Nobody knows what’s in the future. Even if you take a big fall, it won’t be the end

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